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Monday, February 8, 2010

"When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible" -Billy Crystal. (Extracted from Reader's Digest Feb 2010)

Though people had been thinking that I'm like years much older than I really am, I still dare to quote such things. Lets not say that I'm like 'dah kemaruk nak kawin' but I believe every individual in this world want to spend the rest of their life as smoothly as possible with the loved one by the side. But seriously, I had been thinking so much this lately, am I able to meet the kind of man I really want to be as my life partner?
Will that man has all the important characteristics?

#1: 100% faith and obey to the One and Only The Almighty and Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.
#2: Love my family and responsible to his family.
#3: Understanding
#4: Stable in the sense of health and wealth
#5: Appreciative and respect all kinds of human race, not only towards me.
#6: Social yet understands the boundaries.
#7: Gentleman towards all women but romantic only to me.
#8: Strictly tobacco-free and alcohol-free.
#9: Has the leadership and prioritise education on our children.
#10: Strict yet loving.

Like Aisyah said (mimic her 'makcik2' style): "Memang susah nak cari lelaki yg baik, yg msh jaga solat, yg masih jaga batas.. So if you found one, better grab cepat2!"
But the question here is, should we be like "Perigi mencari timba"?

For the mean time, I'm still finding answers towards all the questions I asked to myself. And I never gave up to pray to Allah that I will get the person I had my eyes on him. (8 years older won't hurt) *giggles*

"Jika dia yang ditakdir untuk menjadi milikku, dekatkanlah hatinya dengan ku, tapi sekiranya dia bukan yang terbaik buatku, tenangkan hatiku agar dapat aku terima takdirMu dan temukanlah aku dengan seseorang yg lebih baik darinya" ameen.

Take care loves. :)

Wow it had been decades since I last updated this blog and it's getting pretty dusty here huh. :D

Many things had happen ever since the day we had been waiting for came upon. The feeling of being struck by lightning (if I could exagerate to that extend) indeed made a great impact in my life. It's like carrying me to a new revolution when not only Plan A was off track but even my Plan D was not on the lane. I can say I wasn't walking on Earth because internally I was dead but physically.... you just have to carry a strong front for the sake of the loved ones.

For some moments I was freakingly afraid if I might lose my drive when suddenly an idea of blaming The Almighty was part of my brain cells. But seriously I am so thankful to Allah for giving me strong and beautiful people around me- all throwing words of wisdom and guidance to see the grace of blessing in disguise of all things that happen in our life. Hamdan lillah. I believe He still loves me even with all my disobey and weaknesses.

Thank you all. And I dedicate my gratitude to my one and only mum for always standing strong for me although I dissapoint you too much. I am thankful that you never lose faith on me and has been supportive enough. Indeed you know me better than I do- of what I capable of. (but sometimes you don't :D).

Salamun minni lakum.
Take care loves. :)